Jessica Simpkin

Hey! I'm Jess, I'm 37 years old and currently live in Manchester, England. I talk about sex and relationships based on lived experiences. I'm outgoing and adventurous, I love attending costume parties with friends, as well as hiking in the Lake District.

I write to a mixed room — singles, people dating, couples, and the quietly curious. I do not assume you have a partner, a particular body, or a label.

I am not a doctor, therapist, or lawyer. I do not diagnose. When a topic brushes health or the law, I say so and point you towards a GP, an NHS page, or a specialist.

This site is for adults. Consent is ordinary here, the way locking the door is ordinary.