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Dirty talk

What to say in bed, asking for what you want, fantasies, and sexting.

Dirty talk

Sexting Examples You Can Copy When Your Brain Goes Blank

Sexting examples from a hello to I am thinking about you in the queue. My swipe file for blank nights.

23 August 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Bring Up Trying Something New in Bed

How to bring up trying something new in bed. My scripts for toys, roles, and third people.

22 August 2026Jessica Simpkin

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27 Things to Say During Sex That Are Not ‘Does That Feel Nice?’

Things to say during sex that leave room for feeling. Lines that describe, praise, and steer, not quiz.

20 August 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Give Sexual Feedback Without Ruining the Next Time

How to give sexual feedback that they can use. The note after, not the grimace during.

19 August 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Say No During Sex and Still Like Yourself in the Morning

How to say no during sex: stop, redirect, or leave. On the nights I wished I had sooner.

18 August 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Flirt Over Text Without a String of Winks

How to flirt over text: timing, teasing, and Jessica’s rule about not writing a novel.

24 February 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Tell Your Partner Your Fantasies Without Making It a Job Interview

How to tell your partner your fantasies: start small, watch their face, keep a way out. Jessica on the ones she shared.

20 February 2026Jessica Simpkin

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Sexting Tips for People Who Type Like They Are Ordering a Taxi

Sexting tips that sound like you. Jessica on photos, pacing, and the text she sent to the wrong chat.

27 January 2026Jessica Simpkin

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40 Dirty Talk Examples You Can Steal and Then Ruin in Your Own Accent

Dirty talk examples from soft to filthy. Jessica’s lines, plus the ones she would never say.

15 January 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner When You Both Go Awkward

How to talk about sex with your partner: timing, tone, and Jessica’s kitchen-table method.

7 January 2026Jessica Simpkin

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How to Ask for What You Want in Bed Without a Presentation

How to ask for what you want in bed: one sentence, good timing, no spreadsheet. Jessica’s scripts.

30 December 2025Jessica Simpkin

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How to Talk Dirty When You Sound Like Yourself, Not a Subtitle Track

How to talk dirty in a voice that is actually yours. Jessica on the sentence that changed her sex.

22 December 2025Jessica Simpkin